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Ethan Kross

Leading expert on emotion regulation, award-winning professor, and bestselling author

  • About Ethan Kross

    Why do some people navigate uncertainty and perform brilliantly under pressure while others freeze or fall apart? Why do some bounce back from adversity while others stay stuck? Why do some build deep, sustaining relationships while others struggle to connect? Why do some people seem to flourish—while others just get by? The answer to all these questions lives in the same place: inside our own minds. And most of us were never taught how to manage them. Ethan Kross has spent over 25 years pioneering and translating the science that changes that.

    One of the world’s leading experts on emotion regulation, Ethan Kross, PhD, is an award-winning professor at the University of Michigan’s Department of Psychology and its Ross School of Business, and co-founder and Executive Director of the University of Michigan Institute for Mental Fitness—a first-of-its-kind moonshot effort to enhance emotional well-being on a global scale.

    Kross is the two-time national bestselling author of Shift: Managing Your Emotions—So They Don’t Manage You and Chatter: The Voice in Our Head, Why it Matters and How to Harness It, translated into more than 40 languages. With over 8 million views across his TED and Big Think talks, his insights have transformed how millions of people understand and manage their emotions.

    His research has been published in Science, The New England Journal of Medicine, and The Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, and regularly featured in The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, The New Yorker, Harvard Business Review, The Atlantic, TIME, and The Economist. He has appeared on CBS Evening News, Good Morning America, Anderson Cooper Full Circle, and NPR’s Morning Edition, and his podcast appearances include The Huberman Lab, The Mel Robbins Podcast, Hidden Brain, and The Happiness Lab. He has also participated in policy discussions at the White House.

    Off the page, Kross advises top executives, Fortune 100 organizations, and professional sports teams, bringing the same evidence-based tools to the highest-stakes environments in business and sport. He has spoken at TED, SXSW, and leading corporate stages around the world where audiences don’t just enjoy his talks—they leave transformed. Blending human stories, science, and humor, Kross makes complex ideas feel personal and relatable—more like a conversation with a trusted friend than a lecture. Whether speaking to executives, medical professionals, athletes, or students, he leaves audiences wanting more. Kross has found when science finally explains something every human being has felt but never had words for, people lean in—and they don’t want it to stop.

    Kross was born and raised in Brooklyn, New York. He attended the University of Pennsylvania, where he was elected to Phi Beta Kappa and graduated magna cum laude. After earning his PhD in Psychology from Columbia University, he completed a post-doctoral fellowship in social-affective neuroscience to learn about the neural systems that support self-control. Kross moved to the University of Michigan in 2008, where he founded the Emotion & Self Control Laboratory. Kross now lives in Ann Arbor with his wife and two daughters.

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    Chatter: The Voice in Our Head, Why It Matters, and How to Harness It

    The conversations we have with ourselves are the most important we’ll ever have. Our inner voice — “the Swiss Army knife of the mind” — helps us plan, perform, create, and lead. But when it turns on us, it becomes chatter: the relentless loop of worry, self-doubt, and rumination that undermines performance and health, often precisely when the stakes are highest. Drawing on compelling human stories and cutting-edge science, Dr. Kross gives audiences practical, immediately applicable tools to turn their inner voice from their worst critic into their best coach — and the clarity to know the difference.

    Mental Fitness: The Skill Your Organization Is Already Paying For — But Not Building

    Organizations spend billions each year on burnout, stress, and productivity loss — treating the symptoms of unmanaged emotions without ever teaching the skills that prevent those outcomes or minimize them when they occur. In 1825, America introduced its first physical fitness program; within 75 years it was a national norm. Mental fitness is at the same inflection point. As co-founder and Executive Director of the University of Michigan Institute for Mental Fitness, Dr. Kross makes the business case that emotion regulation and inner-voice management are trainable, measurable skills, and equips leaders with the evidence-based tools to build them into the fabric of their organizations.

    Shift: Managing Your Emotions — So They Don’t Manage You

    Emotions are information, not noise. The better we regulate them, the better we think, perform, and lead. The problem isn't that people have difficult emotions — it's that almost no one was ever taught what emotions are, why they arise, or how to change them. Dr. Kross dismantles stubborn myths — that avoidance is always toxic, that negative emotions are the enemy, that willpower is the answer — and reveals a surprisingly wide science-based toolkit for changing how we feel: strategies that work even under stress, even without time, and even when the usual approaches fail. The science challenges what you think you know. The tools change how you operate.

    Perform: The Science of Excelling When It Matters Most

    What separates people who perform brilliantly under pressure from those who freeze or fall apart? It isn’t talent or experience — it’s the relationship they have with their own mind in the critical moment. Choking, freezing, overthinking aren’t signs of weakness; they’re the predictable result of a brain doing exactly what it’s designed to do at exactly the wrong time. From the lab to the locker room to the C-suite, Dr. Kross unpacks the science of why the brain undermines itself under pressure — and delivers specific, immediately applicable techniques for performing closer to your ceiling when it counts.

    The Human Edge: Mental Fitness in the Age of AI

    As artificial intelligence takes on more cognitive labor, a critical question emerges: what do humans bring that algorithms can’t? The answer isn’t a technical skill — it’s a psychological one. The people and organizations that win the AI era will be those who can manage the inner voice under uncertainty, regulate emotions when disruption is constant, and lead with clarity when everything feels unstable. Dr. Kross makes the scientific case for mental fitness as the defining human competitive advantage in an AI world — and shows audiences exactly how to build it.

    Raising Mentally Fit Humans: What Every Parent, Coach, and Teacher Needs to Know

    Children spend more than 15,000 hours in school learning to read, calculate, and compete. They spend almost none learning to manage the experience of being human: the worry before a test, the spiral after a loss, the voice that says they’re not good enough. The result is a generation struggling with unprecedented anxiety and emotional overwhelm. With research that will surprise and stories that will resonate, Dr. Kross gives parents, educators, coaches, and healthcare providers a practical framework for building mental fitness in young people — and modeling those skills themselves.

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